When you think winning a friend could be that easy as sharing a seat with a complete stranger, or can be bought from somewhere then we could go on believing that we will never feel incomplete, lonely, or weary with the idea that we can find it anywhere and anytime we need it. We could easily appreciate every people we meet and eventually accepting some to become part of our lives for the sake of companionship. I was defining friendship at its simplest form, a mediocre kind of relationship but not until I came up with an astounding realization from this kind of bond I found from my College friends. I had this thought since I was in high school that the kind of friendship everyone deserves to have is the kind where one must never feel down and that kind of having a person who will always be by your side literally or figuratively whenever someone tries to go against you. Every person I meet, I try to adjust with how they treat me. I try to be one of whoever I am with believing the...
Whew! It's been quite a while! It’s been exactly a year ago and how funny it is to realize that my last article was also about looking forward to another year. Finally, after a busy year, I am back again pushing my desire to write but instead of sharing most of what happened from the previous year, I am listing down my top 5 to look forward to this new year. The year 2018 for me was a mix of highs and lows. I embraced a lot of new experiences which most of it came from my new role and work environment. However, as I weigh everything that year 2018 has brought me, I can say that there are more things to be grateful for than to whine about. As I recall one of my takeaways from our pastor's preach before the year ends, he said that the more grateful you are, the more positive you will be. So, from all this gratefulness I have in my heart, I am excited to embrace more of these 5 things this 2019. ...
You may have thought that this world would be easy and fulfilling once the past have already defined you. It is when you arrived at a point in your life still questioning yourself every night if you have taken the right path or chosen the right decisions. Anxiety dictates a lot of could-have-been and what ifs every night then another day comes at you waving hello to new beginnings. Beginnings that give you another chance to every shot you missed and reasons to prove you are right. Constant fear of what could possibly go wrong may sound overrated but when will it end? What makes a reason good enough to convince someone? What makes a thought become valid to others? Stopping ourselves to worry about things that are way beyond our control may be a struggling process, but it does progress gradually. Over the years of overcoming myself, I figured out some helpful mechanisms and lessons which I’m whole-kindheartedly sharing with you who deals with such obscurities ...
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