Coping up with the scattered pieces of myself

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I might apply the phrase: "Re-aligning your life back to its normal state" better than the mediocre: "Hey you have to move on, you'll find someone better".

It is such a novelty these days that when we heard of someone "broken", or whatever it may cost the person concern, people instinctively throw pieces of advice saying you should not worry, sooner or later, you'll find completeness and will never feel lonely again. I hate to admit it but nowadays, definition of being "whole" has fallen in complete disarray and what confuses me are these people who shared random experiences and approaches this ramblingly.

Maybe it's essential that we get to a point sometime in our lives to become sober from emotionally romantic attachments. It may be a choice given to us or our decision to make but whatever that is, unexpected circumstances are inevitable.

None of us can escape a sudden change of heart.

Bottom line, or realization rather, it is such an art to give yourself a temporary time to direct your life in your own unique way. It's in this phase where I realized the word independent is better than the word- single.
I may be alone most of the time- but never lonely.
I am starting to learn how to gain more of myself which I find worthy more than squeezing other people you thought would be the source of happiness you think you're lacking all your life.



Written By: Hannah Dani

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